What You Want To Say To Your Mother-In-Law vs. What You Should Say

She means well. Really she does. But WHY does she have to meddle in everything? Sweet mother-in-law, there are so many things I could say but I'll rephrase them to actually say this: 

What you want to say: Did you just insult my mashed potatoes? Have you tasted the ones you make?

What you should say: I don't think I'll ever be able to make mashed potatoes like yours. (keeping the laughter inside)

What you want to say: Your son is a grown man, stop telling him what to do!

What you should say: Actually, nothing. Your feelings are coming from a place of wanting to be in control. Could she be acting just like you? If it's not bothering him, it's not an issue. On a personal note: That also means he can't complain to you in private about it. Don't act like it's okay and then vent to you that it's not okay all while doing nothing about it. That's just not a fair position to put you in.

What you want to say: You've already raised your children, don't tell me how to raise mine.

What you should say: I know you're trying to spoil the kids with __________ but we're trying to limit the ________ (you could say sugar if she's feeding them junk). Then ask if she'd be open to buying them ___________ instead. Choose something that would be beneficial for your family. Let her choose what she's buying and still let her feel like she's spoiling them. This could really help you.

The Huffington Post has the full list.

Do you have a mother-in-law that would require you to filter your comments?